Overanalyze to Insanity
Its no secret that women overanalyze things. We search for hidden meanings, what ifs, subliminal messages, hints, intentions, etc etc in just about EVERY situation, statement, question, and action. But where shuld it stop? If ur losing sleep..mayb the analyzing shuld scale back, losin appetite, not functioning at work? Yeps, it may be too much. Sumtimes you might not recognize that its too much but if ur feeling overwhelmed and on the edge of breakdown..then its going to far. Hopefully you dont get to that point but it def can happen.
What do you do when it seems sum1 is hinting something at you? Even if they deny that they are..your gut is telling you its not the truth. Should you take matters into your own hands and try to disect and analyze the situation or should you wait til that person is ready to be forthright? What if time is of the essence? How should one proceed?
I'm a VERY literal person. Hinting at me is pointless bcuz either I wont get it or it'll take a loooong time for me to get it. It sumwhat irritates me when ppl hint at me if I've told them about my literalness. (is this even a word). ESPECIALLY in poetry..I AM THE WORST POETRY COMPREHENDER EVER. If its not spellin it out..metaphors, allusions..etc is totally LOST on me.
What do u do when you recently have a conversation with someone about a relationship being 50/50..and one shuldnt be tryin harder than the other..blahh blaah..and then a few days later ur sent a poem about good men are hard to find and if u find one dont let him go and if u dont kno how to keep a good man..u shuld learn and not let him slip away?
That sh!t sounds like a biiiig hint to me but according to the person its not.
To analyze or not analyze..thats the question. And women tend to not be able to just analyze..overanalyze is in our genes.
One friend tells me to let it go...sumtimes things need not to be analyzed..another friend is sayin brutha tryin to tell u sumthin and u need to figure it out!
Decisions..decisions..I need a tad bit of help. Dont wanna drive myself crazy tho...thats most important.
What do you do when it seems sum1 is hinting something at you? Even if they deny that they are..your gut is telling you its not the truth. Should you take matters into your own hands and try to disect and analyze the situation or should you wait til that person is ready to be forthright? What if time is of the essence? How should one proceed?
I'm a VERY literal person. Hinting at me is pointless bcuz either I wont get it or it'll take a loooong time for me to get it. It sumwhat irritates me when ppl hint at me if I've told them about my literalness. (is this even a word). ESPECIALLY in poetry..I AM THE WORST POETRY COMPREHENDER EVER. If its not spellin it out..metaphors, allusions..etc is totally LOST on me.
What do u do when you recently have a conversation with someone about a relationship being 50/50..and one shuldnt be tryin harder than the other..blahh blaah..and then a few days later ur sent a poem about good men are hard to find and if u find one dont let him go and if u dont kno how to keep a good man..u shuld learn and not let him slip away?
That sh!t sounds like a biiiig hint to me but according to the person its not.
To analyze or not analyze..thats the question. And women tend to not be able to just analyze..overanalyze is in our genes.
One friend tells me to let it go...sumtimes things need not to be analyzed..another friend is sayin brutha tryin to tell u sumthin and u need to figure it out!
Decisions..decisions..I need a tad bit of help. Dont wanna drive myself crazy tho...thats most important.
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