Just say No

I need to stay away from the hood ni$$az. But its hard lol. I think I have that bad boy syndrome.
I like a guy w/ sum hood in him.

I need to get rid of it bcuz I aint never fell in love with a thug.
And I aint nevr been in a relationship w/ ray ray/pookie.
And since I'm an educated blak woman..i need to find sum1 on my level. or near it.

I always say I like a guy with street smarts who aint in the streets...
but if I had a choice between suited up jay-z & fitted hat & tims jazy-z...I'd prob pick the latter.

I met a very cute guy but I culdnt figure out why I wasnt more attracted to him. The next day I realized its cuz he looks like he got a job and sum education rather than he do a lil of this and a lil of that. *sigh*

And its always weird meetin nice guys...cuz I'm always anticipatin sumthin bad. Always lookin for the negative. I've been mentally scarred by all the no goods...i cant accept a guy mite actually be of quality.

Its weird cuz I can approach a hood guy & spit that nice game of mine lol...but a non-hood guy..its like i dont know what to say to them lol. I got issues.

Soooo...i'ma leave Dayquan and dem alone so I can leave myself available for that fine..educated..brutha I deserve.

Comments

Dope Fiend said…
LOL! gurrrrrrrl dont b chasing them hood rats! u need a dude with
J
O
B


so that you's can have dual income to buy u some perdy things lol! ok im half kidding but really

education and a job trumps jail card anyday!
QuietStorm said…
u shol is rite lol. I aint tryin to give out no bail $$ anyways:)
Sexxy Luv said…
i have sort of the same issue....i usually date men who are dope boy$...not speaking of those who stand on the corner and nickel and dime it but the ones who are really about that weight.

i have learned that those men can't see the beauty that i posses inside they only see me as the trophy girlfriend based on the outer appearance, and for that reason alone, i have decided that i need a man with a JOB they seem to be able to see what's on the interior and appreciate the exterior.
It's really hard to find that balance, sometimes. It's like, I hate when they're SO "educated" they can't listen to rap or laugh at Dave Chapelle. But on the flip side I hate when they're so hood you can't introduce them to your friends or be seen with them in public without risking your credibility as an educated woman looking for a good man. LOL
It's really hard to find that balance, sometimes. It's like, I hate when they're SO "educated" they can't listen to rap or laugh at Dave Chapelle. But on the flip side I hate when they're so hood you can't introduce them to your friends or be seen with them in public without risking your credibility as an educated woman looking for a good man. LOL

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